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Sunday, January 10, 2010

Yoooo...hoo.....

Now, I shall just let the pcitures do the talking.....



















Hereby is something interesting I found from a Singapore forum - CozyCot :

1. Treat relationships as a learning journey. Focus on enjoying the journey instead of arriving at the destination.

2. Adopt and maintain a "nonchalant" or "don't care so much" attitude.

3. DON'T be attached to the outcome of the relationship.

4. Principle of "feeling" statements: ALWAYS be open and honest about your feelings with your partner. VOICE OUT your feelings and NOT ACT OUT those feelings!

5. "Positive reinforcement training": REWARD the behaviour that you like and IGNORE the behaviour that you don't like.

6. Be open to the possibility that your boyfriend MAY or may NOT be the right man for you. Whatever the truth is, ACCEPT it and act accordingly.

7. Be present and happy in the here and now. The thing that you really have now is the present - this very moment!


5 comments:

Hayley said...

Aww nice quotes!! should keep that in mind...thanks for sharing!

Shingo T said...

I like this quote and it's actually a fundamental key to keeping my marriage honest and happy.

"Principle of "feeling" statements: ALWAYS be open and honest about your feelings with your partner. VOICE OUT your feelings and NOT ACT OUT those feelings!"

Here's one more quote to add in.

"Open your eyes WIDE when you are dating, and close HALF a eye when you are married."

Erny said...

Hayley: Yup...hope it'll help us girls achieve happy relationship.

Shingo T : Haha...that quote of yours...true..true...well spoken from experience, huh??

Stefanie said...

No bf, so I skip the part of quotes. :D

I more in love with the 1st picture. The food looks great and yummy!!!

LilJo said...

First time drop by..
Found out that we have two things in common; you use the words "colour" as well and like quotes too..

Weee.. Happy to know you & your blog... ^^