Monday, June 14, 2010

Thoughts flying about

This life of mine, I look back, and wonder is there anything that I would love to change about it??
Very often, people said that, everything in life happens for a reason. You'll fall, stand up again, and learn from the mistake, make sure no more falling again, but you'll eventually still fall *chuckles*, stand up, learn from it, try avoiding the same mistake, fall again, stand up, learn again, and be more careful, but you'll fall again........stand up, learn.......Gosh!!
Now, I finally understand how life works. Falling is unavoidable in life.

I am so torn apart. Many decisions to make. Some will lead to happiness, and some to sadness. Some will gurantee short term pain, but long term joy.
I hate to think that every decision in life, we make it, and we shoulder the consequences. No such thing as pointing fingers at others. And no such thing as blaming people for giving wrong advices.

At times, I tend to wonder whether I should be grateful for these things that are happenening to me now? Or these are just temporary situations that will lead to mass destruction of my life one day.

Follow your heart...oh, follow your heart....
Gotta follow my heart closely, and pray for the best.


Shingo T said...

I'm not a big fan of "Follow your heart" because sometimes this will lead us to make irrational decisions.

Think long term, short-term pain is fine as long as it will lead to better prospects in future.

Sorrows will make us better people, ONLY if we don't dwell in self-pity.

Your life will be great once you get the mindset corrected, and that comes with age.

The crisis of today will be the joke of tomorrow, always remember that Erny! ^_^

danielchowtzeyoong said...

good luck in every life changing decision u make!! :) all the best to you :)

Erny said...

Shingo T: Love that "The crisis of today will be the joke of tomorrow" ....

Dan: thanks!

Edward Liew said...

quoting the movie 'karate kid' which i just watched: "doesn't matter how many times you fall, what matters is whether you choose to get back up again or not." All the best!

Uncle Lee said...

Hello Erny, I enjoyed reading your posting.
Our life tday is not a dress rehearsal. We only get to play one round.
You just live your life as how you want it to be....
Live life with no excuses, love with no regrets.

And here's wishing you....may the winds of Destiny carry you aloft to dance with the stars.
You have a nice day and keep a song in your heart, best regards, Lee.

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