Control freak.

"It makes no sense to worry about things you have no control over because there's nothing you can do about them, and why worry about things you do control? The activity of worrying keeps you immobilized."

- Wayne Dyer -

Quote of the day....

"I can't stop eating. I eat because I'm unhappy, and I'm unhappy because I eat. It's a vicious cycle."

Current obsessions..

*a pic of me eating in pizza hut*

I don't think I need to go over and over in my blog that my past, current and future obsessions will always be my quest for the best make ups and skincare. I'm a vain pot. Who isn't?

However, truth be told, I'm actually taking this wonderful opportunity that my bestfriend, Ning, is back, to learn more bout how to ensure a working relationship.
I am no noob in relationship. Neither am I an expert in one.
The only thing I jolly well know is that, trust must be present in every relationship. Respect, and followed by, good communication.
Recently, I don't know what is going on. Whether God is blessing me, and guiding me through a smooth journey. Or was it all just pure coincidence??
Since boyfie got home, we have yet to get into any big fights, and even my "merajuk-ing" time wouldn't last more than 15minutes.
I'm a VERY, extremely sensitive girl. Every little thing, I'm able to create a havoc out of it.
But nowadays, whenever I think boyfie has been neglecting me for quite some time, and when I was just about to QQ (china msn) him, his message will reach me first, asking me, what am I doing.
When he is out with friend, and I feel he has not contacted me for some time, as I pick the phone up preparing to make a fuss, his message will reach me first, telling me he will be back soon, and that he'll look for me over QQ.
I feel weird. It is like God is helping me to avoid any unnecessary quarrels and fights. Giving me some peace. Lessen my doubts.
I dare not feel happy or overjoyed with the current situation, as I know too overly type of emotions will just lead to major disappointment when things suddenly just fall flat again.
But I just want to take this opportunity to thank God, for at least letting me have some uneventful but easy going life and relationship, and to have my bestfriend, Ning, here to enlighten me on how a relationship should be managed, how trust should be embedded in the mindset, and appreciate my bf as he is now.
For the part on my relationship, I'm contented, and thankful.
For the part on my job search, I'm hopeful, and praying.

My biggest obsession with life now, is very much to keep learning. Not merely on academic stuff, but more on how to look at life, and improve myself.

Boyfie in Kuala Lumpur (part 2)

Just like I've mentioned, Oi siew & hubby brought us around KL.
We took picture at Dataran Merdeka, KL tower and twin tower.
I was bad at telling him Malaysia's history. He kept asking me why is BM language in alphabets?? How does it coincide with the English alphabets?
I told him, it just so happen we used alphabets, and the Europeans too. He went home, googled it up, and found I was talking rubbish.
I was embarrassed that he knew his China history at the tip of his fingers, and I, on the other hand could actually tell him Dataran Merdeka was the place we announced kemerdekaan?? (was it not??) and luckily I didn't go about on Tunku Abdul Rahman shouting Merdeka!! Merdeka!! there. (cause it definitely did not happen there, did it??)




We were on our way to Genting. Public transport is such an ass in Malaysia.

In the cable car where boyfie approached a guy to help us take a picture. I love this picture.




My boyfie in front of the casino which we stood staring at for some time, debating on whether it really is a casino.

Owh, another of my favourite picture. In front of Pavilion that night after coming back from Genting!

Boyfie in Kuala Lumpur

After two days in Kedah, I brought my dearest to KL..I had great plans for him which failed terribly because of the stupid bus that was so fucking slow....and then something happened to the door, and we were asked to change over to another very THE buruk bus.
I felt so embarrassed for the inefficiency in Malaysia's bus system, and also was pissed at my ruined plan.
Thank goodness boyfie was kind enough to assure me that, it didn't matter, he was there to see me, visiting is just secondary.
However, of course, I still managed to bring him to THE famous shopping spots. My all time favourites.



Later that night, I'm so thankful for the group of "ji mui"..as in "sisters" I have.
Eventhough they have been working their ass off the entire day...they made a steamboat gathering especially to welcome my boyfie to Malaysia.
Their sincere hospitality made him feel so at ease, and I was so glad they hit it off well too.
Boyfie was busy barbecueing food for my friends, and taking food for them. However, to them, they could only see the part where he kept taking the food non-stop, and everyone stared at me, asking me, "your boyfriend can eat a lot, huh??"
Lol, he was actually taking food for others, he didn't eat THAT much, though he can actually eat A LOT.



So glad that we had our "4 flowers" sister's gathering. Though our gang actually consist of 5. Another so-called traitor is still enjoying herself in UK. No lah...she is not a traitor...she is our youngest sister. I saja want to "kek" her here. But I doubt she reads my blog.
Nevermind, I shall leave her a facebook comment to read it.

After the steamboat, Oi Siew and her hubby were so kind enough to bring us around KL, and took some pictures of KL view for us.
This will be continued in my next episode of
BOYFIE IN KUALA LUMPUR PART 2!!

Boyfie in Kedah.

My boyfie spent two days in Alor Star with me.
We went to watch movie - Toy Story 3. My brother asked my future sis-in-law to introduce it to boyfie and me. We headed the advice and had a great time freezing to death in the cinema.

Beside that, the very night, my bestfriend Ning rang me up. Gawd. I forgot she was scheduled home that evening. She drove over my house instantly to meet up with my boyfie. I was glad they went off on good note, and I am so happy my bestfriend approves him!! Lol, not that it'll do much difference if she doesn't, but it is always better to have your best buddy out there giving you the thumbs up!
She introduced him to my favourite food of all time - Laksa!
I still haven't asked him his opinion on the laksa, though I had a very disappointing answer regarding my tomyam treat. He said he was positively sure there was soap powder in it. =.='''

Boyfie ate papaya too...and he gave half back to me telling me he thought it stinks. But when I ate it, I thought that was like the best papaya I've ever eaten. Those in my house stink far worse than that.

At the end of the day, we retired to my new house in Jitra, had a great time showing him around Alor Star, my dearest hometown!

Boyfie trip to Malaysia

The long anticipated trip was finally on when my boyfie kept up to his promise, and flew in all the way from Beijing.
Everyone, from family to friends, were so excited. Needless to say, I was THE most anxious among all.
My dad was especially nice to him as daddy knows very well that boyfie sayang his beloved daughter as much as he does.
Mummy was so nice as to suggest bringing boyfie to a restaurant which serves coconut jelly, because my very DIFFERENT boyfriend pointed at a coconut tree and ask me, "what is that tree?"

We settled for Rung Reng, a Thai restaurant at Jitra. I love the food there. However, boyfie had difficulties adjusting to the weirdly sour taste in most dishes.
Though the main character of the day was boyfie, but we were all shock to see my brother, the ever reclusive and usually do not bother bout my family affair fellow, made a grand appearance with his gf. I felt so blessed and grateful to my brother for his support because he was the last person on earth that I would ever dare to expect turning up for a dinner with boyfie.
He even shook hands with boyfie the minute they met.

Everything went on well with the family meet ups, and greetings, and the get-to-know-each-other session.
I am so pleased with it.
Currently I am still in the hotel opposite Sungai Wang. Boyfie will be back tomorrow.
Better stop blogging now, and get back to teman-ing my dearest boyfie.
Ending my blog with two preview pictures of boyfie and my family.